Sarwendah Tan, the Indonesian singer and former member of the girl group Cherrybelle, has publicly addressed recent controversies surrounding her personal life, including a dispute over child support and a viral incident involving public criticism of her ex-husband, Ruben Onsu. The developments have sparked widespread discussion among fans and media outlets, with Sarwendah emphasizing her commitment to resolving the matters “with a cool head.”
Apology and Child Support Dispute
In a statement shared through local media, Sarwendah acknowledged the tension surrounding her relationship with Ruben Onsu, who is the father of their three children. She reiterated that the issue of child support, which had previously been a point of contention, had been resolved. “The party of Sarwendah stated that the Rp200 million (approximately $13,500) child support has already been agreed upon by Ruben Onsu,” a report noted. This clarification came amid ongoing scrutiny of the couple’s post-divorce dynamics.
Viral Incident and Public Reactions
The controversy escalated after a video surfaced online, showing Sarwendah making disparaging remarks about Ruben Onsu during a live stream. The clip, which quickly went viral, led to calls for her to be boycotted by some segments of the public. In response, Sarwendah issued a public apology, expressing regret for her actions and addressing her children and fans directly. “Sarwendah apologized to the children and fans for the incident,” a report highlighted.
Denial of Hindering Contact with Children
Amid the backlash, Sarwendah also denied allegations that she had obstructed Ruben Onsu’s access to their children. “Sarwendah refuted claims that she had made it difficult for Ruben Onsu to meet the kids,” a source stated. The singer emphasized her willingness to maintain a respectful co-parenting relationship, despite the challenges.

What’s Next
As the situation continues to unfold, Sarwendah’s team has indicated a focus on resolving personal matters privately. The singer, known for her career in music and entertainment, has not yet announced any new projects, but her recent statements suggest a shift toward personal reconciliation over public disputes.